High self esteem is healthy. However there is a level of self esteem that blinds one from reality. Interacting with many such prospectives online has been frustrating mainly because I really do want to give these guys a fair chance. But they can quickly ruin my interest by not trying very hard to impress and making cavalier requests when the truth is that I'M JUST NOT SOLD YET. Please do not mistake a woman's openess to your interest in her as a cue that she is 100% into you.
I made the mistake a few months ago of giving a guy my number, when I was still only just curious (meaning I wasn't sold yet but open to being won over). I should have followed my own advice re: the face-to-face. But I was impatient and too busy to set something up. He ended calling me towards the end of the month and I just had no energy for the conversation at the time. Since then I have received a text from him every two weeks asking me to come to his house! Did I mention we have not had a face-to-face yet? Today I received another text from him, once again asking if I want to come over to his house tonight. Is it elitist of me that I think most people can afford a cup of coffee? I feel some pity for him because ever since I sent him an e-mail he has interacted with me as if he's got it in the bag. I'm just not sold yet.
Tip: Never tire of putting effort into wooing and impressing your potential mate, especially in the beginning stages. If you're tired, then you may not be as excited about that person as you think. This goes for both women and men.
Always,
ODQ
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