Well, here we are on day four on eHarmony. Success on this site so far is pretty limited. I'm grateful for a lot of matches. Each day they provide new matches for me to look at (however I wish they would let me know via 1 e-mail a day as opposed to 5!). I have gone back and forth over whether or not to be the first one to initiate with the men that I am matched with. Like many women I over analyze the situation wondering what message I'm sending by initiating first. God forbid I seem too agressive! But most of the time I'm just thinking, "I paid for the damn thing so I better get the most out of it!" (My last go round with eHarmony was fully funded by my second mom). Suffice it to say I'm a little more anxious. Does it come of as desperate or practical/pragmatic when a woman initiates first? And is it an LA thing that more and more these days women have to be super overt about their interest for a man to feel comfortable making a move?
So far I have had three guys out of maybe 30 either express some sort of interest. None of them have gotten to the final stage of communication. Awesome.
Just keep swimming,
ODQ
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